Is it possible to be the perfect homemaker? Here’s a secret, yes, it is! Keep reading to find out how you, too, can be “the perfect homemaker” Now I would like you to notice that I used the word “homemaker” and not “housekeeper”. Believe it or not, there is a difference. Many decades ago, I was taught the meaning of a homemaker verses homekeeper. Which they are two different meanings. Now, lets look at the two different words. First let’s look at the words “house” and “home”. A house is the actual structure – apartment, condo, house, trailer, etc. A home is beyond just the structure…it is the feeling or atmosphere of a house … the heartbeat of a house. Next, there are the word's “keeper” and “maker”. A keeper takes care of something (usually belonging to someone else). A maker makes something what it is. It takes a structure and makes it inviting. So, a “housekeeper” is someone who takes care of the household duties — cooking, cleaning, repairing, managing. These duties can be hired out so the one keeping the house isn’t necessarily the owner. A “homemaker” is someone who takes ownership in that same area. Tries to make it inviting, warm, cozy, safe, comfortable. Yes, a homemaker has the duties of cleaning, cooking, shopping, laundry, and managing the home (we’ll talk about those some other time) BUT it’s more than that. It’s putting your heart into it, it’s personalizing the space to make it exactly what your family needs and desires, it’s surrounding yourself with the people and things that you love, it’s about making memories that will last a lifetime. So … the first thing that you need to do to be the “perfect homemaker” is to change how you think about what you do. Don’t only think of it as duties that you perform but as a ministry to your family. Anyone can do the duties but not everyone can do it with love, commitment, and the goal of wanting it to be a safe and inviting environment. What are your desires for the atmosphere of your home?
Only YOU can answer these questions. Only YOU can truly create the atmosphere that you desire. Only YOU can put your heart into your home!!! Please don’t be freaked out by the emphasis on “you”! It isn’t meant to put the pressure on you but instead to help you realize the honor that you have. This honor was given to you by God in order to fulfill in you who He wants you to be — the woman, wife, mother, sister, daughter, aunt, grandmother, friend. Whatever your title might be, it’s an honor to have that title. Be proud of it — it’s all yours! So this is your assignment1. Make a list of things that happened in your home (or your grandparents’ home, a friend’s home, whomever) that made you feel safe, comfortable, relaxed or made a memory (obviously it did or you wouldn’t be remembering it, huh). 2. Brainstorm about things that you would like to do in your home (more board games, more family outings, more homemade cookies, opportunities to show hospitality, etc.). You might be tempted to put things like keep up on laundry or dust more often on this list but, for now, don’t. Those items are for another time and place. I want you to think about atmosphere and memories, about cozy and warm, about laughing and sharing moments with your family. Remember, YOU are the only one who can be the perfect homemaker in your home! No one else can duplicate the atmosphere that you want to create, no one else can love and nurture your family the way that you can, no one else will create the same memories as you will. It’s a serious calling but one filled with love, blessings and feelings of accomplishment. Using your strengths (that He gave you), you will create the best possible home for you and your family. It’s a huge responsibility but it’s also full of blessings! You’ve got this!!! My Homemaking / Home Management Binder I like to transfer my schedule into my daily binder (this is the schedule I’ve been using for several years). I feel like it’s the best planner for homemakers, because it also includes 20 pages for weekly schedule and budgeting. Also a place to list meals for each day. Print and reuse as needed. GET YOUR HOMEMAKING / HOME MANAGEMENT BINDER Some links may be affiliated. By purchasing an item from an affiliate link, I receive a small commission—but you are not charged more or less by clicking or purchasing through the link. Thank you for supporting us! Don't miss a thing! Sign up to get updates delivered to you inbox. Blessings,
Margarita & Stace
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8/31/2021 07:11:53 am
I never knew that homemakers could maintain the appearance of your property and do basic chores like cleaning and grocery for you. Having someone you can rely on during busy times is indeed very convenient. I think I should look into this and share it with my friend who's taking care of his aging aunt.
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Farm/ Livestock Management Binder
$25.00
Farm / Livestock Management Binder In this binder you can log all your livestock needs and help you stay organized with all records. Such as: *Goats *Chickens *Horses *Medications *Purchases of Livestock *Sold Livestock Our Farm / Livestock Management Binder is 24 pages. Print our the pages, fill in your Livestock information and place in a binder of your choice. When all of your Livestock information is kept in one place it saves time in case of an emergency. Crochet Name Doilies
$25.00 - $50.00
Our crocheted name doily makes an excellent wedding or baby shower gift! Perfect for framing. Available in any color. Up tp 5 letters $25, 6-10 letters $35, 11-15 letters $50 Please let us know the name and preferred color when placing order Height is 4.5 -5.5 inches. Width depends on number of letters Since this doily is hand crafted it will be ready to ship in 7 -10 days. and 3-5 shipping. Thank you for shopping with us! Crochet Bottle Cozy
$10.00
Handmade Crochet Cozy’s are the cutest accessory to any bottle, can, cup. My husband inspired me to make the cozy’s. No one likes picking up their cold drink on a hot day only to realize that it is no longer cold. Preventing the water/rings from forming on tables and countertops. This prevents damage to your furniture. This Crochet Cozy will keep your hands from getting cold while you indulge in your favorite drink. Made with 100% Cotton yarn. Once you get one, you’ll start imagining Cozy’s for everything in your life. All Cozy’s make a great gift for literally anyone! Great for tailgates, pool parties, outdoor BBQ’s or anytime. If you don’t see one you love don’t hesitate to message me! I love creating new products.
* This listing fits most standard cans, bottles or takeout cups so make sure you pay attention to what listing you order from. If you don’t see the size you’re looking for, message me and I’ll create a new listing for you.
* Colors may vary due to stock so message me if you prefer something specific.
* Cozy’s are soft, absorbent, durable and so practical!
* Made from cotton yarn and are easily washable. Hand wash. Lay flat to dry.
Thank you for supporting my growing shop. Crochet Dishcloth / Washcloth
$5.00
Crocheted dishcloth / washcloth for washing dishes or soft enough to even wash your face or use on your baby. All dishcloths measure approximately 8 by 8 inches but since each is handmade, they may vary slightly. Made with different brands of 100% cotton yarn. Colors may vary slightly with each ball of cotton yarn. Wash cold. Wash separately if purchasing a dark colored dishcloth. Dry on low heat or hang to dry. Slight shrinkage can be expected. If you want more than I have in stock, you can message me, and I will check on my yarn availability. I am happy to do custom orders. Keep in mind dye lots can vary colors slightly. Crochet Cast Iron / Pan Handle Cover
$6.00
Crochet Cast Iron / Pan Handle Cover. I love cooking with cast iron. But I seem to always forget about that hot cast iron handle. Now it's a thing of the past since I've started using this crochet cast iron / pan handle covers. It’s like having a hot pad on the handle. Even during long cooking sessions, these handles hold up to the heat and keep your hands protected. That's because these cast iron / pan handle covers are made with 100% cotton yarn. They make great gifts for anyone who loves to cook with cast iron or any pan. 🌟 This listing is for 1 crochet cast iron handle cover. 🌟 Length: approx. 5" long Width: 2" at the widest point and 1.5" at the narrowest point MATERIAL: 100% USA Grown Cotton COLOR: Your choice I have many colors to choose from. If you don't see the color you're looking for, please send me a message. I probably have it or can get it for you. CARE INSTRUCTIONS: Machine wash or hand wash. Lay flat to dry. Thanks for checking out my shop! Crochet Cup Sleeve Cozy
$6.00
Pretty cup cozy for both hot and iced beverage cups. It will slide up over a standard size non handle travel cups or store-bought coffee cups. They are great at protecting hands from the heat and cold of the travel mug/cup. *100% cotton yarn. * Colors may vary due to stock so message me if you prefer something specific. *Machine washable and dryer safe on low heat. *All Cozy’s make a great gift for literally anyone! *If you don’t see one you love don’t hesitate to message me! I love creating new products. Thank you for visiting our store. On Sale On Sale Crochet Star Baby Blanket
$65.00
$55.00
Only a few left! Handmade with love! This star-shaped crochet blanket is perfect for that new little baby in your life! Perfect for baby showers or newborn gifts. It measures 50 inches from point to point. The yarn is yellow and white acrylic, which makes for easy washing! *If you would like a different color or size, please contact me. Yarn is machine washable. Wash on gentle cycle and lay flat to dry for best results. Thanks for visiting my shop! Crochet Flower Coaster Set
$10.00
Crochet coaters set of 4. Coaters are hand crocheted. Perfect for holding your drinks while being a beautiful accent to any living room, dining room, or kitchen counter. Make great gifts or birthdays, anniversaries, wedding gifts.... * Colors may vary due to stock so message me if you prefer something specific. *If you don’t see one you love don’t hesitate to message me! I love creating new products. Care: they are machine washable for a warm water and lay flat to dry. Do not iron. Thank you for supporting my growing shop. Gardening In the South
$20.00
Gardening In the South E-Book Learn about Gardening in South Texas Zone 8 In our e-book we cover Fruit trees, Perennials & Pollinator, Garden checklist, What months to plant. Your files will be available to download once payment is confirmed. I don't accept returns, exchanges, or cancellations. But please contact me if you have any problems with your order. Thank you for shopping with us! Margarita |
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